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Accepting the Burden, a meditation on suffering (CCAR 1923)

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He was wounded because of our transgressions,
He was crushed because of our iniquities;
The chastisement of our welfare was upon him
And with his stripes we were healed. (Isaiah 53:5)
And Moses returned unto the Lord and said:
Oh, this people have sinned a great sin,
and have made them a god of gold.
Let now forgive their sin;
and if not, blot me, I pray Thee, out of Thy book
which Thou hast written. (Exodus 82:31)
Before I was afflicted I did err;
but now I observe Thy word. (Psalms 119:67)

It is good for me that I have been afflicted
in order that I might learn Thy statutes. (Psalms 119:71)

God’s word recorded in Scripture:
‘Behold it is very good’ (Genesis 1:31)
refers to the suffering
which occurs in the world.
But how can the words
‘behold it is very good’
be applied to suffering?
Because through it
men attain immortality.
For, go forth in life and see
which path leads man to eternity.
Surely it is the path of sorrow. (Genesis Rabbah 9.8)
When mankind languisheth in pain
let no man say:
‘I shall return unto mine own household,
[to] eat and drink and be at peace!’
Nay, each man must be willing
to suffer with his fellowmen.
He who shares the afflictions of others
will merit to behold the comforting of humanity. (Taanith 11a)
Among the ways of acquiring understanding of the Divine Law,
is the cheerful acceptance of suffering. (Mishnah Avot 6.6)
The psalmist recalls
the sombre days of his affliction,
the sudden disaster,
the dazed heart heavy with grief,
then the gradual healing of the wounded spirit,
the chastened soul,
the deepened understanding,
and the blessed sense of God’s comfort and mercy.
All this he recalls and praises the Lord:
‘It is good that Thou hast afflicted me,
for thus have I learned Thy statutes.’
When we live at ease
we sail carelessly over the surface of life
unaware of its deeper undercurrents.
Then calamity overtakes us,
and, in the struggle with the waves,
we learn how precious is life,
how deep is pain,
how boundless our gratitude
to our Deliverer and Preserver.
God brings us to the very gates of death,
in order that we may learn, manfully,
how to choose life.
It is not only our own affliction
which brings us blessing.
Our fellowmen suffer for our benefit.
From their tragedies
we learn how to avoid misfortune.
Even the material comforts of our life
are largely due to suffering
of those who lived before us.
The houses in which we live,
the fuel we burn,
the streets we traverse,
all have a history of toil, suffering,
danger, and even death.
The musician who delights us with his art,
the teacher who brings light to our minds,
the physician who rescues us from pain,
all have endured years of self-denial,
toil and trouble.
We live by the sufferings
of the mother who bore us
and the parents who reared us.
The beautiful lives which inspire us
have been wrought in the furnace of affliction.
The call comes to all of us
to bless as we have been blessed;
to accept our share of this interblend
of pain and benefit.
We who profit by the vast linkage
of human woe and weal
cannot refuse the burden of pain.
We must patiently accept
the daily restraints of conscience,
and walk the arduous way of virtue.
Perhaps others may profit by our strivings
and find in our humble lives a blessing.
In Thy mercy, O God of Love,
Thou causest light to shine in hours of darkness.
We thank Thee that Thou hast afflicted us,
for thus hast Thou shown us Thy salvation.
Teach us, O Lord,
to trust in Thy love,
to accept with patience,
the grief Thou sendest.
Grant us the hope
that we may behold
our affliction and our trust
and be enlightened.
Open our eyes to see
that none liveth to himself alone;
that innumerable are the strands
binding each to each.
May our sorrows be hallowed and solaced
by the thought that as no man liveth for himself alone,
no man suffereth for himself alone;
that all that suffering createth,
whether of beauty within us
or of achievement for the good of others,
belongeth not to one but to all.
Our sufferings can become highways
to the goals of love.
Lead us therefore in the paths of love
that our every sorrow may be endured
for Thy name’s sake,
so that even the valley of the shadow[1] of death. cf. Psalms 23:4 
may become a pathway where we may walk with Thee.

“Accepting the Burden” is the forty-third prayer found in ברכה ותהלה Blessing and Praise: A Book of Meditations and Prayers for Individual and Home Devotion (CCAR 1923), pp. 143-145. Unfortunately, we do not yet know of a resource providing clear attribution of authorship for any of the prayers in this volume.

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1of death. cf. Psalms 23:4

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