Kiss of death, a prayer upon the death of a parent by Andrew Meit

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Date: 2011-10-01

Last Updated: 2025-05-29

Categories: Mourning

Tags: 21st century C.E., 58th century A.M., death of a parent, English vernacular prayer, prayers on behalf of parents

Excerpt: A prayer written by a son upon the death of his mother. . . .


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‏על פי ה׳ —
מלמד שמת בנשיקה‏ (רש״י על במדבר לג:לח)
At the word of (by the mouth of) Hashem
We learn that he [Aharon] died with a kiss. (Rashi on Numbers 33:38)
נשיקה —
דמיא כמשחל בניתא מחלבא (ברכות ח׳ א)
Neshika
the “kiss” is comparable to removing a hair from milk. (Talmud Bavli, Tractate Berakhot 8a)

Hashem,
please do kiss warmly my mother/father hello
as we struggle to kiss her/him good-bye.

Hashem,
please favor me,
to inhale smoothly her/him into your heart
as we exhale our rough grief from our entangled hearts.

Hashem,
please with grace,
lift quickly and wholly her/him into your embrace
as we endure slowly her/him leaving this world’s firm grip.

Hashem,
please grant me for you to slide quickly her/his body from her/his meritorious soul,
a soul providing sustaining milk/support to many for many years in many ways.

Hashem,
please with compassion place her/his soul among her/his loved ones and friends
as we place her/his body among beloved flowers and fertile earth.

Hashem please,
always show and remind me the many, blessed memories of her/him
till the day I too die,

Amen

By Andrew Meit, written upon the death of his mother, Sonie Meit, the 28th of Sivan 5771 — כ״ח בְּסִיוָן תשע״א.

 

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